Lesbian Sex Tips

People often say, “sex happens in the head first” and this is especially true with two women. Forging an emotional connection through talking and foreplay will lead to a much more close and intense experience.

Listen to your partner. Try to gauge her reactions to everything you do.

Don’t rush into it. There’s much more to lesbian sex than just going down on each other and you have more than just your tongue to use. Kissing, touching and caressing every erogenous zone is just as important, enjoy the build-up.

Practice makes perfect. One bonus of lesbian sex is that you share the same anatomy as your partner – so practice on it! Figure out what feels good for you and try it on her. She can also do the same for you.

Lesbian sex positions

As we mentioned earlier there is unlimited potential when it comes to lesbian sex, but we’ve picked out our top three lesbian sex positions to help spark some magic between the sheets (or wherever you please):

Sexy Spooning - Turn cuddling up a notch with the sexy spoon. All you have to do is spoon each other then, whoever is the big spoon, can reach around and touch the little spoon. Find the rhythm by moving your hips, the big spoon can also use their fingers or a strap on to provide penetrative pleasure from behind.

Scissoring - It wouldn’t be a list of lesbian sex positions without good old scissoring. Have your partner lie on their side and then you straddle their leg so that your clitoris' are both aligned. Once you're set up, grind as much as you please!

69- The 69 position allows both of you to give and receive clitoral stimulation simultaneously. One of you lies on top of the other in an opposite-facing direction. That way, both of your mouths land right in between each other's legs. Which leads nicely onto…

When building the tension, try licking, kissing and blowing around her inner thighs, working your way upwards – even starting behind her knees. It’s an extremely sensitive area that’s sure to have her desperate for you to move on to her clitoris.

Remember there are thousands of nerve endings down there. Seeking them all out will be a lot of fun for both of you.

Don’t be afraid to slip your tongue (or a finger or two) into her vagina. If you do insert your fingers, curl them towards the front of her body in a ‘come hither’ motion to find her g-spot. Keep stimulating her clitoris at the same time and she’ll soon be in a world of pleasure.

Want to take your oral skills up a notch? Our guide to going down on a woman has loads of expert tips to help you perfect your oral technique, you’ll become a pro in no time at all!