The Best Gay Sex Positions

When it comes to the best gay sex positions to try out with your lover, this is a one-stop place to find out everything and every position you need to try. From anal positions to oral sex, this guide will have you longing for a night between the sheets.

Whether you’re new to a same sex relationship or just looking to enhance your expertise when it comes to bedroom antics, keep scrolling to find out how to have gay sex in a way that will send you both wild.

Missionary

We’ll start off with a classic – the gay missionary position. While missionary may be known as basic, when you do it as part of gay love-making, basic’s not the word for it. It’s an intimate position that both of you can enjoy as you can be face to face which means kissing and eye contact.

First things first, you need to decide who’s going to be the giver and who’s going to be the receiver. Missionary is a fairly easy one to crack - the receiver lays on their back with their legs open and slightly raised, while the giver gets on top and inserts their penis into the anus. Voila – now it’s time to put the work in.

Penetration when you’re a beginner to a same sex relationship can be pretty daunting, check out our how to prepare for anal guide to get you started.

Spooning

Spooning, a close and cosy sex position that requires minimal effort and is perfect for a glorious morning wake up call. It’s as easy as it sounds – just lay on your sides in front of each other and get to work.

This position gives you the opportunity to grind and thrust your way to a mind-blowing place and it also allows you both to join in on the thrusting action. The person in front can push back against him for deep penetration that will get you both gagging for more in seconds.

Doggy Style

Doggy style is another gay sex position that we love. Doggy makes a great position that allows for fast and hard penetration which results in undeniably great pleasure.

Again, you’ll need to decide who’s giving and who’s receiving. You may have set roles in your relationship or you might decide to mix it up each time – but that’s down to you. For doggy style, the receiver is knelt on all fours with their bum slightly raised facing their partner, allowing them to penetrate from behind.

The person who is penetrating can hold the other’s waist for support and pull him in closer. While the person on the bottom can enjoy the penetration, he can also give himself a hand job for extra pleasure.

The Rocking Chair

The rocking chair position is thrilling and definitely a good one to try if you’re looking for extra excitement in the bedroom. One of you will need to rest on the edge of your bed, with the other facing away as they gently lower themselves down onto you for penetration.

You can then begin to build up a rhythm of rocking back and forth and speed things up as you both please. This position is both sexy and intimate and provides the support you need to build a consistent rhythm to really ramp up the heat.

69

The 69 is a winner in our books because it allows you both to give and receive pleasure simultaneously. Although not penetration, oral sex is just as good, if not even better, right? For the classic 69 position, you lay on top of each other but facing opposite directions so your heads are met with each other’s genital area – the perfect position for you to give each other head and feel each other’s pleasure intensify. If you’re after some tips and tricks on how best to ensure your partner feels great in the position, check out our beginners guide to blowjobs.

If you want to make things a bit more exciting, you can upgrade the classic 69 to the standing 69 or sideways 69. These positions do what they say on the tin and work exactly like the standard position, but instead of laying down on your back and front, you either stand or lay on your sides. Just a heads up, the standing 69 will require a little strength as the standing partner will need to support by keeping the other in place by holding onto their waist. But trust us, it’s deffo one to try.

Sex Essentials are a Must Have

When it comes to gay sex, there are a few essentials that are a must have to ensure you both have a great time. Lube is always encouraged, and especially so in a gay relationship - the wetter the better. Find out more about different kinds of lubes and how best to use it in our how to use lube guide.

Sex Toys are a great addition when it comes to sex. But with so many to choose from you need to explore your options with your partner and use our finding the right gay sex toys guide to help pick the right ones for you. Trust us here, you won’t look back.

So, there you have our favourite sex positions if you’re in a MLM relationship. Try out our top positions and explore a variety of ways to mix things up in the bedroom and add adventure into your sex life.