Squirting. Female ejaculation. The stuff of legends and lust-filled whispers. It’s the ultimate sexual enigma – real or just another porn-fuelled fantasy? Whatever you’ve heard, this isn’t some mythical fountain of pleasure. Squirting is real, raw and steeped in intrigue. For some, it’s an unexpected gush; for others, it’s a journey of discovery that starts with knowing your body intimately.
Ready to get wet and wild? We’re stripping back the myths, diving into the facts and giving you everything you need to know about how to squirt.
Squirting is the release of fluid during arousal or orgasm – often misunderstood but endlessly fascinating. Scientists aren’t quite sure where it all comes from (the Skene glands or maybe even the bladder), but what they do know is that it’s a natural reaction to pleasure.
Porn would have you believe squirting equals fireworks and waterfalls every time you climax. In reality, it’s less about theatrics and more about deeply understanding your body. Forget the high-definition Hollywood ending – squirting can happen unexpectedly or not at all, and both are perfectly normal.
Here’s the truth: squirting isn’t a universal experience, and that’s okay. Not every woman will achieve that gushing release, but many will produce some fluid during arousal or orgasm – it just might not come shooting out like a water cannon.
Some women naturally squirt with the right stimulation; others might never experience it. Does that make sex any less satisfying? Absolutely not. Pleasure comes in many forms, and squirting is just one of them.
FSquirting isn’t a goal to chase – it’s an experience to enjoy if and when it happens. If you’re curious about exploring your body’s potential, here’s how to set the scene:
Solo squirting starts with self-discovery. Experiment with clitoral and G-spot stimulation to find what works for you. Are you a fan of fingers, or do you need a little mechanical magic? Knowing what turns you on will make guiding a partner that much easier.
The G-spot is your squirting HQ. Slide your fingers inside and curve them upwards towards your belly button. Feel that soft, spongy spot? That’s where the magic happens. Add some pressure, mix in vibrations, and see where it takes you. Read our G-spot guide for more tips and tricks to unlock a mind-blowing internal orgasm.
Tension is the enemy of pleasure. Whether you’re playing solo or partnered up, focus on enjoying the sensations rather than fixating on squirting. If it happens, it happens. If not, you’re still on the road to orgasmic bliss.
Squirting isn’t an instant miracle – it’s a slow build. Whether you’re on your own or with a partner, make foreplay long and luscious, experiment with sex toys, explore fantasies and don’t rush the ride. With patience, the payoff could be wetter than you ever imagined.
Penetrative sex can be a great way to try and achieve female ejaculation, and there are even certain positions that can directly stimulate the G-Spot to encourage this. You might find that you don’t squirt at all, even with some of these positions, but we’re certain you’ll have fun trying.
Lie face down with a pillow under your hips. Let your partner grind deep instead of thrusting for that sweet, G-Spot pressure.
On your back, legs up and resting on your partner’s shoulders. This position tilts your G-Spot into the perfect spot for intense stimulation.
Wrap one leg around your partner’s waist while the other lies flat. Add a clit stimulator for double the pleasure.
Whether you’re going solo or with a partner, bringing a sex toy into the bedroom can enhance your chances of squirting and provide some mind-blowing pleasure. These toys are designed to hit all the right spots.
The dual stimulation of a Rampant Rabbit® is iconic for a reason. With its vibrating ears on your clit and a curved shaft for your G-Spot, this toy is built for toe-curling orgasms – and maybe even a squirt or two. Check out our rabbit vibrator guide and find out how to hit the right spot.
Sleek, sculpted, and oh-so-powerful, a G-Spot Vibrators hones in on that elusive spot with precision. Add vibration settings to the mix, and you’ll be reaching new depths of pleasure.
Squirting might be shrouded in mystery, but exploring your body’s unique responses is the real thrill. Whether or not you experience a splashy climax, the journey is what matters. So grab a toy, set the mood and see where your desires take you.
Love,
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