Heatwave or Cold Front? Dive into Temperature Play and Feel the Thrill

The Great British summer – when one day you're basking in the sun and the next you're digging out your winter coat. With such unpredictable weather, it’s hard to know whether to plan for a beach day or a cosy night in. But why let the weather outside dictate your fun? Instead, bring the elements into your bedroom with a bit of temperature play.

What is Temperature Play?

In simple terms, it’s a form of sensory play where you use various methods to heat up or cool down different parts of the body during foreplay or sex. The beauty of temperature play is that it’s as much about the anticipation and surprise as it is about the sensation itself. From the slow drip of warm wax to the icy touch of a chilled toy, these contrasting temperatures can heighten sensitivity, intensify pleasure and take your intimacy to the next level.

While it has its origins in BDSM, you don’t need to be a seasoned pro to enjoy it. Anyone can get in on the fun and experience the delightful contrast between warmth and coolness on their most intimate areas.

Feeling the Chill? Let’s Warm Things Up

When the weather outside is frightful, why not make things inside delightful? If it’s unseasonably cold, heating things up in the bedroom is the perfect antidote.

Drip, Drip, Hooray: Wax Play

Wax play is a classic way to introduce some heat into your playtime. The idea is simple – drip warm wax onto your partner's skin and watch as they shiver with pleasure. But before you start, make sure you’re using body-safe, low-temperature candles specifically designed for this purpose. Regular candles burn too hot and can cause burns, so opt for ones that melt at a lower temperature to ensure a safe and sensual experience.

Spice Things Up with Heated Toys

If you fancy something a bit more high-tech, heated toys should be your go-to. From warming vibrators to heated massage stones, these toys are designed to add a cosy, intimate touch to your play. Simply warm them up according to their instructions and let the soothing heat relax your muscles and heighten your arousal. Perfect for those nights when all you want to do is snuggle up and get steamy.

Hot Oils and Gels

Warming massage oils and gels are another fab way to bring the heat. Whether you’re giving your partner a sensual massage or adding a bit of spice to your solo session, these products create a gentle, warming sensation that feels divine on the skin. Just imagine the tension melting away as the warmth spreads through your body – bliss.

Heatwave? Cool Off and Turn On

When the temperature outside starts to soar, why not cool down with a bit of ice play? There’s nothing like the refreshing chill of an ice cube to get your heart racing during a heatwave.

Fun with Ice Cubes

Simple yet effective, ice cubes are a fantastic way to explore cold sensations. Slowly glide an ice cube over your partner's skin, focusing on erogenous zones like the neck, nipples and inner thighs. We recommend using your mouth but hands work fine too. The sudden coolness against warm skin can be incredibly arousing, especially when paired with teasing touches and whispers.

Tingly Cooling Gels

If ice isn’t your thing, cooling gels are a great alternative. These gels provide a tingly, refreshing sensation that’s perfect for hot nights. Apply a little to your skin or your partner's, and enjoy the cool, tingling feeling as it spreads. They’re also fab for enhancing oral play, leaving a minty fresh feeling that’s sure to please.

Playing with Chilled Toys

For a more intense experience, try chilling your metal or glass toys in the fridge or a bowl of ice water. The smooth, cool surface of these toys adds an exhilarating element to your playtime, especially when combined with heat from your own body or a partner's touch. Just be sure to test the temperature first – too cold can be as uncomfortable as too hot.

Keep It Hot, Keep It Cool, But Keep It Safe

As thrilling as temperature play can be, it’s important to keep safety in mind to make sure you have an enjoyable experience.

Hot Play: Sizzling Safe Tips

• Temperature Control: Always test the temperature of wax or heated items on a less sensitive area of skin before using them on more delicate areas.
• Product Safety: Stick to body-safe, non-toxic candles, oils and gels designed specifically for intimate use. Never use regular candles or household oils as they can be harmful to the skin.

Cold Play: Cool, Calm and Careful

• Avoid Burns: Yes, even ice can burn. Prolonged contact with ice can cause frostbite, so always wrap ice cubes in a cloth or use them sparingly.
• Comfort and Communication: Regularly check in with your partner to make sure they’re comfortable and enjoying the sensations. Communication is key to a safe and pleasurable experience. Read our guide to talking with your partner about sex for some top tips.

So there you have it – whether it’s a scorching heatwave or an unexpected cold snap, you can make the most of the British summer by bringing temperature play into your bedroom. Remember, the temperature in your bedroom is entirely up to you – so why not turn it up (or down) and see where it takes you?

Love,
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